why should we speak better English, ladies ?

Should I or Should I not

I always wondered why ,
I 'm smart , ( i think so )
I  know my subjects well .
I  dont have to market anything ..
I can read and write it well.
and mostly I love my mother tongue.

You will not turn in to a british Avatar ( trust me)

but then  one day I met this man who did not know Hindi . I wanted to explain my thoughts and I did not know Tamil .  I gave him every printed material , website and photos I had . But he had more questions. and we struggled big time. He was sweating , me too . But it was an eyeopener . my work was open for everyone in India. we were aiming to be in every city .
I decided to learn , I  was 25 years old. believe me it was not a happy decision. No one around me was speaking English . In my college , it was mostly " jyada angrez mat bano " ( don't pretend to be a British) if someone even tried.

the only thought was a seed from my father " you can learn anything , at any age, if you want to because you just  need smart mind for that". That time I was only 13 and was not able to cook something good.

I went to English speaking institution . it was useful but not suitable as the course got over , but challenges were still there.
I started speaking to everyone who was friendly , i told everyone that I'm on this mission and they should help me. ( they tried their best)
I know all the fears , hesitations, I was in second top position in my office , so reputation was at stake too (if English speaking makes that :)
I'm at a good level now . but i want to be impeccable, its a never ending journey.

This wont happen  

You find your why , but never ever give any right to anything or any language to define your smartness, your goodness or your belief in you.
 READ THIS LINE CAREFULLY ANS SAY IT LOUD

ENGLISH IS JUST ANOTHER LANGUAGE , IF I WANT I CAN LEARN THIS